Ep486: Harry Spaight – Learn About Selling With Dignity

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Quick take

BIO: Harry Spaight is a Keynote Speaker, Coach, and Author of Selling with Dignity-Your Formula for Life-Changing Sales Results.

STORY: Harry invested in mobile homes in Georgia without researching. He trusted a young man he knew through the father. In just three months, the houses were run down, and the tenants refused to pay rent. Harry lost over $100,000 that he’d made from selling his home.

LEARNING: Get a financial advisor that you trust and consult before making an investment decision. Collaborate with the right people. Do your research.

 

“Stick with what you’re doing and get better at it.”

Harry Spaight

 

Guest profile

Harry Spaight is a Keynote Speaker, Coach, and Author of Selling with Dignity-Your Formula for Life-Changing Sales Results.

After spending several years in mission work, Harry has been succeeding in Sales as an Award-Winning Multi-million Dollar Sales Producer and Sales Leader for over two decades.

Selling successfully can be achieved with timeless principles. Putting others over self, being a good listener, and doing the right thing all go a long way towards growing a successful business.

Worst investment ever

In the early 2000s, Harry met this young guy who was a real go-getter. He played golf with his dad, and the three built a great relationship. The young guy moved to South Carolina and got into real estate.

The young man called Harry and told him about this opportunity he had investing in mobile homes. He said to him that all he had to do was make a low investment, allow him to use his credit, and the young man would take care of everything. Harry would then receive rent at the end of the month.

Harry had just sold a house and made some money from it. He used this money to invest in six properties in a small town in Georgia. Soon enough, he started making passive income from the properties. He was making about $1,000 a month. Everything was working out great.

About three months in, everything started going wrong. People stopped paying rent, and the property management left. Now Harry had to fly from Virginia to Georgia to collect his rent. He was shocked by what he saw. The properties were a slum. When he spoke to the tenants, they all refused to pay rent because the houses had so many issues.

Now the $1,000 rent he was receiving turned into Harry paying somewhere around $4,000 a month in mortgages. The money he had made from the house sale started to dwindle. Harry went back to the young man and asked for his money back. The young man suggested that he give him three better houses, which would make him more money. Foolishly, Harry accepted the offer. His bills went up to $6,000 a month. The $100,000 he had made from the house sale was gone within a few months.

Lessons learned

  • Get a financial advisor you trust, and bounce your ideas off of them before putting your money down.

Andrew’s takeaways

  • You cannot build a sustainable business without relying on others. So spend time thinking about who you’re committing to do something with because chances are, you’re going to be with them a lot longer than you think.
  • Take time to think through every investment and do thorough research before signing off on it.

Actionable advice

Have a team of smart people around you.

No. 1 goal for the next 12 months

For the next 12 months, Harry’s goal is to get his book Selling with Dignity-Your Formula for Life-Changing Sales Results into the hands of 1000s of people. He believes that he can help people have life-changing results in the way they position and sell themselves.

Parting words

 

“Be patient even when you’re going through tough times. You’ll get through it.”

Harry Spaight

 

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Andrew Stotz 00:01
Hello fellow risk takers and welcome to my worst investment ever stories of loss to keep you winning. In our community. We know that to win in investing, you must take risks but to win big, you've got to reduce it, go to my worst investment ever.com and join our Facebook group to connect with our community of guests and fellow listeners. Fellow risk takers, this is your worst podcast hose Andrew Stotz, from a Stotz Academy, and I'm here with featured guest, Harry spade, Harry, are you ready to rock?

Harry Spaight 00:35
I am ready. This is fun,

Andrew Stotz 00:37
I am ready to it's been a great time that you and I have had to get to know each other before we turned on the recorder. And I'm really looking forward to introducing you to the audience. In particular, I just love having people like you on who are experts in sales because as a financial guy, well, I have to confess, it's not my strength. So ladies and gentlemen, let me introduce you to Harry Speight. Harry is a keynote speaker, coach, and author of selling with dignity, your formula for life changing sales results. After spending several years in mission work, Harry has been succeeding in sales as an award winning multi million dollar sales producer and sales leader for over two decades, selling successfully can be achieved with timeless principles, putting others over self being a good listener and doing the right thing all go a long way towards growing a successful business. My goodness, Harry, take a minute and fill in for the tidbits about your life.

Harry Spaight 01:48
Well, first of all, I Andrew, thanks a heck of a lot for having me on the show. This is a blast, you're got quite the intellectual stimulus going on with me talking about civil war and whatever else we're talking about. So it's hard for me not to have a couple of chuckles so my background is all about helping others serving people and having some laughs along the way. So I'm really looking forward to this. You know, my big thing is, it's all about serving helping entrepreneurs and small businesses to be better at selling themselves. So if I can help in any way, I'm here to do that.

Andrew Stotz 02:28
That's awesome. And, you know, I want you to talk just briefly about your book selling with dignity. And just, you know, let the audience know what they would expect to gain from getting it. And we'll have links in the show notes to it. And you can any for any listeners, you can also go to selling with dignity.com to get it but, you know, here we have the author. Tell us what would we get from downloading and you know, reading that book?

Harry Spaight 02:53
Yeah, great question. So what do you think of salespeople, Andrew?

Andrew Stotz 02:58
Well, I think that when I was younger, I thought they were weaselly. I thought they were you know, manipulative. I thought all of those things. And now as I got older, I realize they for they perform an amazing function that I'm not that good at.

Harry Spaight 03:16
Okay, so your first impression, though, sticks with a lot of people. So I'm pretty sure that we could ask your entire audience and most people would rather run and get away from salespeople than stand around and or, you know, stay on the phone and speak with them. There's a statistic that says that from HubSpot that did some research on it that a whopping 3% trust what salespeople say. So, when our lips are moving baby people are not you know, they're just saying liar. So that's a problem, right? So whenever a small business owner goes into sales mode, and starts promoting themselves, you know, people's eyes glass over and they want to get away. And so this is a challenge. So what the reason I wrote the book is, I never wanted to be a sales person, I use my fingers in quotation marks because I don't like salespeople either. So a great compliment for me over the years was Harry, you're not like any other salesperson. I don't even view you as a salesperson. And that to me is the money you know, compliment. So you can do that. Right? So I wrote the book to show that you don't need to be pushy. You don't need to be all about yourself. You don't need to be a great speaker or a great talker. You know, great. I'm struggling right now. You're great with your vocabulary. You can stutter, you can be what's the opposite? What is the word I'm looking for? For where a person is not outgoing introvert, thank you see, I give definitions and I let my host explain the word. But you can be an introvert, right and be successful. So it's all based on principles that we all know. And I'm, I wrote the book so that you guys can be reminded of those principles and say, Oh, that does make sense. Yeah, listen, okay. Yeah, treat others the way I want to be treated. Yeah. Okay, I don't need to be pushy that. So all of that stuff works. And I outline in the book to put it to daily practice.

Andrew Stotz 05:34
And, you know, some people like me, may hear the message that you just said, and think, Oh, good, I don't have to do all that sales stuff. I can be authentic and do my thing and create my product. And I can, you know, it's about sincerity and all that. And then people like me, who get into our product and our solution, we then don't, we either, don't have a good message for the market, of what our product is. And you know, what, what benefit you get for, or we have a good message, but we don't know the channel, and we just can't reach the market. So, you know, there's that's another complexity and I'm set. I'm not asking for friend. It's my channel. Right? Yeah. And it's like, okay, I have a pretty good message, and I got a lot of testimonials of the different things that I do. And, you know, all that. And, and I, my product, I just never get refunds or complaints and all that for my online courses and all that stuff. And, and basically, I just find it really hard to reach the market. And, that's one aspect of it that it's hard for me. Any thoughts or advice for being like? Yeah, I

Harry Spaight 06:49
mean, so there's, that's a great again, great questions. And I love the fact that you're telling me real, you know, issues. So what are the challenges many in Andrew, I don't know you well enough. But like, for instance, many who are doing financial planning, I just went to a networking event a few weeks ago, one that had probably 40 people in the room, there are four financial planners, all four of them, said, I do financial planning. And here's my name is I do financial planning, wealth, strategies, blah, blah, blah, insurance, blah, blah, blah. So who cares? Right? There is no story in that. I'm not warmed up to you, I'm gonna go find someone that actually is gonna make me laugh, or educate me, or give me their why. Right? Tell me why you're, maybe you're a financial planner, because your life, your finances were screwed up. And you said, the only way I could get my hands around this is if I go neck deep into it and actually become a financial planner, and help people instead of I do. My name is Harry spade, I do a financial planning. I'm the smartest guy in the room. I know more about money than you do hand over all your assets to me, because I'm gonna make you wealthy. Right? Okay, why would I do that? So that's problem number one is people have no emotion and no story and don't know why. And then the other thing is, they're just dispensing how smart they are. Right? And people don't like the smartest guy or smartest gal in the room. Because again, they want to see some kind of vulnerability that you've made mistakes in life. And this is why I think I have an immediate love for you. Because you're breaking out failures. iClone my Oh, roots, I'm afraid.

Andrew Stotz 08:45
So let's, let's follow that up for just a moment. And, you know, I had a guest on my show, who was the only CEO in the world with a pink Mohawk. Okay, that's interesting. Yes. And his name is Chris Reid. And he's from Singapore. And Chris has a very unique thing. And he also has something else. He's the only guy I know, as 1600 recommendations on LinkedIn. That people recommending him. Yeah. So it's like, I'm the CEO with the Mohawk. 1600 recommendations can that's a nice number. Yeah. 1600 recommendations can be wrong. Right. And so he taught me and taught me to think about kind of what's my red or pink Mohawk. So I changed around some things about the way I present myself. And now basically, my presentation is simple. I'm the worst podcast host of my worst investment ever podcast. And I don't talk about all my products and all of my different things, and I do a lot of different things. But I found that that was like the most unique thing that I do. And I made it even more impactful by saying, I'm the worst podcast so of course, I'm not really the worst. But you know What What, uh, what a relief to be able to say that, you know, like, it's like, don't blame me, because I already told you I'm the worst podcast hose. But the point is, is that so one of the things I'm taking away from what you're saying is, you've got to try to grab people's attention through story through emotion through something unique. You just can't go on and say, I am the 450/7. Financial Advisor. Yes, but 457 isn't a really good number. Yes,

Harry Spaight 10:27
I'm unique. Exactly. Right. Yeah. But I think that,

Andrew Stotz 10:30
I think that I, I can say that, that I'm the worst podcast host in my worst investment ever is pretty unique. You know? Yeah, I've

Harry Spaight 10:39
never heard it before. Yeah. And if I hear in a network where two or three people say they're the worst podcast host, I'm gonna let you know. But until then, you have free rein right now.

Andrew Stotz 10:51
And the second thing then is like, how do we, I mean, like, I've found LinkedIn as a channel to reach people with my message. What is your kind of advice for people about? How do you think about the channel of how you reach? Let's say, you've you've, you've your people have read your book, they understand how to sell with dignity, they understand that they've built some kind of unique kind of pitch about who they are that's compelling. And now they got to reach that market. What is your advice in that space?

Harry Spaight 11:25
Yeah, I mean, a great question. I think. I'll tell you a story. Quickly, I was speaking to a very nice woman the other day. She does a lot of great things about sales culture change author. And she mentioned she didn't have any views on LinkedIn. And I get I don't have a ton of followers connections. I have about 2500. Yep. So I'm not really happy with my posts, if I have fewer than 1000 views. Okay, if I get 800, it's okay. But if I get 150, I'm not happy at all. I said, okay, that posts sucked. There's something wrong with it, I've got to do better. So anyway, that's kind of my benchmark, you know, sometimes I'll get 5000, sometimes 15,000, which, you know, is astronomical for someone with 2500. Connections. Yep. So what why am I saying all this? Well, I looked at the posts of this person, and they were all telling the audience what they need to do. Okay, no personality? No, you know, no mistakes made. I mean, the vulnerability, you know, I just refer to as being genuine, right? Are you genuine to people see the real you and a lot of people hide behind their intelligence, they hide behind their books, I will tell you, in my book, I talk about things that I did that I regret, right. You know, I'll cut I cut my nose off to spite my face before in my life. And those are not great decisions. But I'm going to share that with you. Right. And when I put out posts like that, they get the biggest traction. Hmm, right. And so you you need to mix we all need to mix, what we do, how we help, little education, I throw in comedy, because I like to laugh. And I'm self effacing I do video, I just started doing video a year and a half ago. Now I'm, I'm actually pretty good. And I did a video the other day, I hope this is I'm not talking too long, because I hate when I do that. But um, it's low for eight o'clock at night, and I'm tired. And I'm gonna keep going. Let me go. So I had this video the other day, a couple of weeks ago, doesn't matter. And I forgot what I was going to say. So I don't know if any of you guys have ever gotten up and spoke to an audience and forgot what you are going to say next. Well, I did. And so instead of deleting the video and starting over, I was just calmly just saying so this is great, isn't it? I really forgot what I was going to say. But I'm going to keep going because I'm gonna show you how you do it. Right? You just keep talking. And eventually it will come back to you. And after I said that it came back to me. And then I picked up from where I left off that video. I'm telling you people just loved it because they said Harry, you're incredible. You're fun. You know, you get it you show us the real you. This is what we love about you. And so now I've got my little audience, you know, a couple of 1000 people 500 Whatever the number is there, you know, I want those people to love me because they see the real me and they're learning from me. Does that how's that sound? That's

Andrew Stotz 14:58
great. And I'm just looking at your LinkedIn profile right now, for instance, I see that you did a post about a week ago with a picture with your wife. And, and looking at, you know, taking a time away beautiful pictures, and you know that that kind of young and I see a lot of people like that, you know, so that authenticity, that personal thing I know, sometimes on Sundays, I'll share a little story about my mom, because my 83 year old mother lives with me. And yeah, I'll share their story and you know something about that and try to remind all of us, you know, why are we working so hard? Part of the reason why we're working so hard is we have time for our family. So I think that's great. A mess is huge. Yeah.

Harry Spaight 15:41
No, you're right. I'm sorry. Go ahead. Yeah. So like, some people will say, well, that belongs on Facebook. No, right. Your life? Is that work part of the time live? The rest of the time, there's no work life balance its life. So you're going to get my life at work, and you're going to get my work at life. Yeah. And that's the way we are, if you're trying to look for work life balance, I don't get that I never really got it. And people say, Well, seems like you work a lot. I'm living baby. Because there are times when I'm doing where others are working. I am out riding my bike taking pictures. Right? I don't, you know, it's life. And if you show your life and mix it right, I'm not just saying, you know, this is what I'm having for lunch. Those are not what I'm showing. But I'm showing, get away for a while. Breathe, take in the scenery, enjoy it, right. We're not here on this planet forever. Enjoy the moments. And I think a lot of people miss that. Because they're waiting for the life after work. Yeah, right. Okay.

Andrew Stotz 16:57
And I was, I did a post on September 15, saying 39 years ago, I was on my knees in a toilet, in a hospital in Louisiana. in the throes of addiction. And I surrendered. Yeah. And I got sober. And I've been sober for 39 years now. And that was just a simple post. But that post, basically, really, really, I think, not only did it get a lot of engagement, I think it helped a lot of people. Oh, so think about it. So I think you know, for everybody out there, you know, considered those kinds of posts that you know, people do want to see your struggles. And speaking of struggles, that's what this podcast is all about. And now it's time to share your worst investment ever. And since no one goes into their worst investment thinking it will be. Tell us a bit about the circumstances leading up to it, then tell us your story.

Harry Spaight 17:53
Alright, so I'm going to go back around the early 2000s. And I met this person at my job who was a really nice kid. I mean, he was probably about 15 years younger than me, a real go getter. Great parents, I played golf with him and his dad. And we just built a great relationship, the Father, the Son, and myself. And this kid, he ended up moving to out of state. So I lived in Virginia in the US. So he moved to South Carolina, which is you know, probably about six hour drive away. And then he was started getting into real estate. So he called me up and he says, Look, I've got this opportunity, investment properties. And we're doing those in Georgia, my parents are involved, I got all these people involved. And it's really you can't lose, right? It was mobile homes for manufactured homes in Georgia, which is even further south. So it would have been a 10 hour drive or a flight to see these properties. And his pitch to me was, look, we're going to take care of everything. And you're going to just collect the money that we give you, right? You give us a low investment, but we're really using your credit, and we're going to pay so I didn't even have an investment. They used my credit, Georgia, which I did not know, had the worst mortgage fraud in the 50 United States. So here I was getting these properties, which was about six properties, I believe in a small town in Georgia. And we had just sold a house we made some money on the house. I was getting this passive income now from the properties I was making probably $1,000 a month and I felt Like I was living the dream, these guys are taking care of it. They're doing a great job. They're collecting the money. And I'm just collecting 1000 bucks a month and I got these properties and like, this is awesome. Alright, so then what happened? A week? Yeah. Okay, so that was as good as it got. And that was about three months in, and then the blank hit the fan. So what hit the fan? Well, people stopped paying the property management left. And it was a so I got on a plane and went down. And I looked at these properties for the first time. Sorry about my dogs.

Andrew Stotz 20:42
It's a show that is okay. Everybody's Yeah.

Harry Spaight 20:46
So I looked at these properties in parked in a rental car. i Oh, my God, this is a slum. And I mean, it was, it was frightening. So if you can imagine one of the properties had chains that something you would pull a ship in, holding on to Rottweilers, so to Rottweilers with these thick shades, a car on blocks, and here I am, I'm going to go and knock on the door and ask for rent money. Okay. So I stood at the end of the driveway, people were super nice. I mean, they were the nicest people in the world, invited me in only to tell me how many problems they had with the house. And so they brought me into the bathroom. And this place I'm telling you was less than six months old. The floor was rotted out, these people did not know that you needed a shower curtain. So they took showers, the floor rotted. And you could see through the through the floor. And that was house number one. I went into others. I mean, stories. I'm sorry, I can't pay the rent. And they had more better furniture than I did. bigger screen TVs and I had, and I'm like, this is such a nightmare. And I had to go home tell my wife. I just like because my wife was supportive. But she was not. She was not interested. She's like, this is not a good move. But I'm going to trust you honey. So that $1,000 A month turned into a net of me paying somewhere around $5,000, maybe $4,000 a month in mortgages. Okay, so that's pretty expensive. I want you to know, that money that I had made from the house sale, started to dwindle. So I go back to my friend, I'm like, You screwed me. You need to make up for it. He says, I know my dad feels the same way ties his father back into it. He says I'm gonna give you three more houses. And these are better and you're gonna make money on nose foolishly. Like I met. I took my idiot pill. I said, Oh, okay, that sounds good. You treat me this time. Yeah, this one's really gonna work. Well. Okay. So now, though, my bills went up to $6,000 a month. And within a few months, the $100,000 that I had made was gone from the house, right, gone. And then we were, you know, we're bailing. We're calling attorneys. We can't pay this. There's no way I can pay 6000 Plus my own bargains. This is not, I surrender. And so I tell you one, can I tell you one last funny story about all this nightmare, because my wife didn't leave me. Right. She was very, you know, she, she saw good in me. So I was a good heart. And I was just an idiot. So I, I laugh at this story. But I knew I needed a car. So I had this old car and it had too much miles, I was driving, you know, 80 miles a day. So I said I had to get a car before all this collapse, hits, and I have to file bankruptcy and have no credit. So I go to this car dealer, a test drive a car. And I said, Okay, this is what I want is like a 25,000. US car $25,000 slightly used. And the guy says, Okay, great. We're just gonna run your credit, and I am crossing my fingers. I'm like, Please, God, don't let this stuff have hit the credit agencies yet. Well, the guy comes back. I don't know guys ever seen computer paper, green bar paper. And he had a stack, it looked like a ream of paper. And he said, so as all is this all you do you see, do you all own all of these properties? And all I mean, I could not believe what the guy was showing me. So I said, Yes. If he says are you Make This is where there's what one would call a lie. He says he making payments on this. I said, Oh, absolutely. So I walked out with the car, and I said, I'm not going to be able to keep this car, they're going to call it back. And I'm just going to be screwed. I'm going to go to jail. I have no money. I didn't know what bankruptcy meant. I knew I was going to be filing it. And it was just, it was a nightmare. I mean, talk about sleepless nights, my wife couldn't sleep. That's my story. So and dread.

Andrew Stotz 25:31
Can you remember? What was the worst day when, like, you know, you emotionally, either yourself individually, or your wife and yourself really came to the conclusion, like I really, really lost this.

Harry Spaight 25:46
I think it was gradual, because I was in denial. Because I was, I mean, I'm such a creative FIX IT person. Yep. Um, but that time, driving the car, that car that I just drove off the lot, I said, they're gonna take this back and I'm, I'm, I'm that guy, right? That I'm gonna have no credit, they're gonna repossess stuff, I'm gonna lose the house, this beautiful house we just bought a few years ago, and I'm going to lose that now. It's like this, this is a disaster. So it was, it was very low, I don't know if it was a day, but it was definitely a very low point in my life. And I had to act, I was a sales leader, I could not bring this to the job. Hmm. So I had this, you know, complete crap show going on at home, my finances, and I was acting like the world's best sales leader. And

Andrew Stotz 26:49
I think a lot of people are in that situation where you're struggling with personal or your, you know, your, your personal decisions. And I know, I've made some mistakes when I was the president of CFA society here at chartered financial analyst. And, you know, here, I was making some really bad financial decisions, you know, that just it? I just felt so ashamed that, you know, and I wouldn't, I wouldn't have shared it at that time. Because I felt like, you know, it just but now, as I look back, so, I think for the listeners out there, you know, there are times that we're doing things that we, you know, it's not illegal, what I was doing, I was just making some bad mistakes. And, you know, that's, that's just part of life. So, you know, my dad once said to me, you know, you don't have to share it with the world. If you've made mistakes and all that, you know, you don't have to go out there and, you know, in the middle of it and make it worse, you know, and I think now, part of this podcast is, after we get through it all, we can look back and learn from it. So let me ask you, what lessons did you learn from this experience?

Harry Spaight 27:56
Number one, get a financial advisor that you trust, and tell them what you're thinking. Because somebody should have talked to me out of that, if I just, I talked to people, but I didn't really want to listen. And the key thing was it someone said, Well, how are you going to manage properties out of state and so these guys got it covered? Well, when you have to get on a plane, to look at properties, I mean, that's not a good thing. You want to be able to drive by and see what's going on, then if you have to do something great, but just hoping that everything's going well, when your floors are rotting out. And, you know, that's, you got to talk to somebody and, and bounce the idea off of them and say, Tell me why this is not a good idea. And I'm gonna argue for that. It's a good idea. And we'll see who wins. And, you know, if you're honest with yourself, I'd never would have been able to win that one.

Andrew Stotz 28:54
Yep. So, uh, maybe I'll just share a couple things that I took away from it. You know, you know, the funny thing about businesses, ultimately, we have to rely on others, you cannot build a sustainable business without relying on others, whether they're suppliers, whether they're customers that you're relying on to pay you and all that, whether they're employees, business partners, but yet, we can also go wrong in the people that we rely on. And that's kind of the paradox. So my first takeaway is, you know, spend some time thinking about who you're committing to do something with because chances are, you're going to be with them a lot longer than you think. That's number one. Number two is after studying more than 400 episodes and interviewing people now 450 or so, I've seen six common mistakes, and the number one common mistake is failed to do their own research. So I think that what you were just talking about is that idea of, of doing some research, doing some thinking about it, talking to someone who's you know, a valuable person to you and getting their feedback and of course, listening to that and Have right. And then number two most common, the second most common mistake is failed to properly assess and manage risk. And I think that, you know, for all of us, when we get excited about a particular project, we get, we get, we get overly excited. And then we don't even really look at the risks in a lot of cases. So I think that's a real good lesson to take time to figure out who it is that you're going to rely on. It's amazing the number of people on the podcast that will just, they'll be really tough at work. And they'll be really tough in many aspects of their life. And then a stranger will come along and say, Hey, why don't you give me? You know, $50,000? And I'll do XYZ and then okay, yeah. Let's try one. Yeah. So those are my takeaways. Anything you'd add to that?

Harry Spaight 30:43
No, those are great. I mean, I think that really nails it. So great stuff.

Andrew Stotz 30:47
So based upon, you know, what you learned from this story and what you continue, what could have continued to learn, I want you to put yourself in the shoes of that young man or woman who's listening right now, who is about to take that step into this proposition that they're facing. It looks exciting, it looks like the big breakaway. And what action would you recommend that they take to avoid suffering the same fate?

Harry Spaight 31:15
So I think this is a, the answer I would go with now is to have a team of smart people around you, and bounce it off the team. So if it's one person, it's a team of one or and you. But if you get two or three people that you're in a room, and you're saying this is what I'm thinking, because if it's I didn't blow any money of my own. At first, it was after, right when it all hit the fan. So I thought it was great. I was telling people, but I didn't want to listen, you I was, you know, I felt like this was the answer. But if I had a couple of people in the room, and they started asking me questions, which I didn't know, what happens if they didn't pay, what happens if they don't pay? Right. I mean, that would have been a good question to ask because I couldn't pay for it. Right. So that might have ended it right there. So

Andrew Stotz 32:13
yeah, that's great advice. And I think for the listener out there, there may be some young listeners that are listening and go, but I don't have those people or I don't know where to, you know, or I don't have the money to join that network or whatever, it doesn't have to be paid, you can literally reach out to people. And there's plenty of older folks that are on LinkedIn or in your life around the corner, a guy that owns a little shop and just you can literally go up to him say, I respect you, because you're running a successful business. I have a business idea. And I'd like to present it to you and just get your feedback. Do you have 15 minutes that I could do that? I don't think many people are going to refuse that. And if they do, then you've just identified someone, you know that you just don't want to, you know, talk to so well,

Harry Spaight 32:59
there's nonprofits by the way. Like, in the US, we have a nonprofit called score score. Yep. Which will is made up of people like me and others, but who are on par to score doubts, because it's like, Hey, I'm gonna help someone else here, because I didn't know about score. But that's good. And there's others that are tied into the Small Business Administration, there are groups out there, and you just have to look about and they'll do it for free.

Andrew Stotz 33:33
Reach out. Yeah. So last question. What's your number one goal for the next 12 months?

Harry Spaight 33:42
Yeah, my number one goal is to get this book selling with dignity into the hands of 1000s of people. Because I feel that I can help people have life changing results in the way they position and sell themselves. And I want to share that and what we'll do is it will help people to have better careers been better businesses, they'll be better for their families, better outlook for the future, and it will drive economies. So I know it's a huge goal, but it's what I want to tackle. They are on a mission. I'm on a mission baby, I go back the book was actually going to be called sell like it's your mission. And so someone asked me, a friend of mine says, Well, what's that about? And I said, it's like, bringing dignity back to sales. It's selling with dignity and being honest. And he says there's your title. And I love the title. I mean, I love selling like your mission, but it's not. People don't get it. If you're not part of a mission. You're not going to get dignity. You're going to get

Andrew Stotz 34:57
it Tom right. Yeah. It reminds me of a saying that I use in one of my presentations about for financial advisors, where it's, are we really putting investors first. And in it, I tell the story of my family. And basically, I tell the story. And I say at the end, I go through it all the time and say, if you use this one statement, treat your client as you would your mother. Right. And I use that story mainly because, you know, I've very close to my mom, and she lives with me and all that. And I intertwine, you know, my mom and dad's story in that, but you know, it is, there is a mission there. And I think I like I like what you're doing. And for all the listeners out there to join the mission, just go either to the show notes, you can also go directly to Amazon, and go type in selling with dignity, it's up there, or go to the shownotes. And I've got all the links, or you can go to selling with dignity and get involved and get in that mission. So listeners, there you have it, another story of loss to keep you winning, remember to go to my worst investment ever.com and join our Facebook group to connect with our community of guests and fellow listeners. As we conclude, Harry, I want to thank you again for coming on the show. And on behalf of a Star Academy, I hereby award you alumni status for turning your worst investment ever into your best teaching moment. Do you have any parting words for the audience?

Harry Spaight 36:33
Yes, the parting words are stick with what you're doing. Get better at it. I mean, I'm here to help. But there's plenty of resources. Be patient. And even if you're going through some tough times. You'll get through it. Right? I went through those tough times. And I'm laughing about it now. Right. So Andrew, you're awesome. I love your story. Keep up doing the keep on doing the great work that you're doing. And then you're helping tons of people. So

Andrew Stotz 37:03
your words are well received by our audience and also by me and we are on a mission and now you have joined that mission to help millions to reduce risk in their life. And that's a wrap on another great story to help us create, grow and protect our well fellow risk takers. This is your worst podcast hose Andrew Stotz saying. I'll see you on the upside.

 

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Welcome to My Worst Investment Ever podcast hosted by Your Worst Podcast Host, Andrew Stotz, where you will hear stories of loss to keep you winning. In our community, we know that to win in investing you must take the risk, but to win big, you’ve got to reduce it.

Your Worst Podcast Host, Andrew Stotz, Ph.D., CFA, is also the CEO of A. Stotz Investment Research and A. Stotz Academy, which helps people create, grow, measure, and protect their wealth.

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